Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years, and it was like he?
First, you should apologize to him. Tell him that you were wrong to fuss, and that you are sorry you were unpleasant about it. Do not say Im sorry you were offended. or anything that makes it his fault. Tell him what you did wrong, and tell him you are sorry, and will try not to do that in the future. Tell him clearly if it is too big of a step, or that you would like to marry him, or whatever your feelings are about that situation. Be very clear. Dont be subtle. Speak very plainly. Start talking about your future with your boyfriend. Tell him your hopes, your expectations, how many kids you want to have when, your career plans, and discuss your financial future. Discuss your religion and politics. And find all these things out about him. You shouldnt marry somebody that you dont know very very well.